#Is_a_Husband_Ordered_to_Beat_His_Wife 

Almighty God knows well the nature of his Creation

He knows how fragile, weak, and also very stubborn sometimes a woman is, as she is initially directed by her heart, feelings, and mood swings!

This is why he created her to be in the custody and guardianship of her father or brother first..

Then after her marriage, this guardianship, custody, and and protection is transferred to her husband.

He is ordered to provide for her, strive to get her what she wants and her children as well.

He goes through a lot for his family, as he is the one who is supposed to endure for her.

But imagine after all these responsibilities and burdens finds her totally disrespectful, and totally disobedient!!

How hard would that be upon him!! Just put yourself in his shoes!!

■ Yet, Allah has ordered him to take some steps in consequence:

 1. *First:*
*Give her sincere kind advice*

Then endure patience with her, if she does not respond;

2. *Second:*
*Abandon her in bed*  (which is very hard for women if you know)

Again he endures patience with her, if she does not respond;

3. *Third:*
*Hit her*

But how would that hit be like??

It might be a slight punch on the arm as if hitting someone with a pencil,, would it be harmful?? Never.


■ *Two important things must be put into consideration here:*

• That these steps are undertaken within large intervals of time that might last for months for every step individually.

• That hitting here is not meant for harming, rather, it is just a reminder

But if after all that she refuses; then he divorces her..

Would you now tell me which is less grevious?? To be divorced?? Or to have a slight punch on the arm just as parents do with their children??!!!