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Prophet Muhammad  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) was a perfect model of modesty and humbleness. He  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) never spoke loudly or in an unseemly manner. In the market, he always passed by the people quietly with a smile. Whenever he heard anything undesirable in an assembly, he did not say anything out of respect for the people, but the color of his face showed his feelings and the Companions became cautious. `Aa’ishah, may Allah be pleased with her, said that she never saw Allah's Messenger  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) laughing so that she could see his molar teeth, for he only used to smile.


`Abdullaah Ibn Maslamah, may Allah be pleased with him, reported Allah's Messenger  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) as saying: "Modesty is a part of the teachings of the previous Prophets and anyone who lacks it is most likely to do whatever he likes." Zayd, may Allah be pleased with him, reported Allah's Messenger  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) as saying: "Every religion has a character and the character of Islam is modesty."


The Messenger of Allah  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) lived a simple and modest life, both in Makkah as a trader before his Prophethood, and in Al-Madeenah as the Head of the State after being commissioned as Allah’s Messenger. The change in his social status from that of a trader in Makkah to the Head of the State in Al-Madeenah did not bring any change in his modest living. `Umar, may Allah be pleased with him, reported that the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) said: " Do not extol me as did the Christians extol ‘Eesa (Jesus), the son of Mary; I am only a slave, so say ‘the Slave of Allah and His Messenger’.”


The Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) did not behave towards others as if he was better than they were, nor did he spurn manual work. `Abdullaah bin Abi `Awfa, may Allah be pleased with him, reported that the Prophet of Allah,  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) never refrained from going with a slave or a widow to accomplish his or her tasks. Others reported that the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) used to tidy up his house, tie the camels, feed the animals, take food with his servants, and help them in kneading dough and bringing provisions from the market. Anas, may Allah be pleased with him, reported that the Prophet of Allah  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) used to visit the sick, attend funerals, ride a donkey and accept a slave's invitation for a meal. Jaabir, may Allah be pleased with him, stated that the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) used to slow down his pace for the sake of the weak and also prayed for them.


When `Adiyy ibn Haatim, may Allah be pleased with him, came to see the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) he called him inside his house. A maidservant brought a cushion to rest on, but the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) placed it between him and `Adiyy, may Allah be pleased with him, and sat down on the floor. `Adiyy later said that he had then immediately realized that the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) was not a king. A similar incident was reported by `Abdullaah ibn `Amr ibn Al-`Aas, may Allah be pleased with him, who said: “Once when the Messenger of Allah  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) came to my house, I gave him a cushion filled with bark, but he sat down on the floor placing the cushion between me and him.”


Prophet Muhammad  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) was humble in all matters. Anas, may Allah be pleased with him, said that the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) would accept an invitation even if he was presented barley bread and soup whose taste had changed. He also reported that the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) said: "I am Allah's servant, I eat like a servant and sit like a servant.''


On one of his journeys, the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) asked his companions to roast a goat. One said that he would slaughter the animal; another said that he would skin it, while a third said that he would cook it. The Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) then said that he would collect wood for fuel. Their response was: “O Messenger of Allah! We will do everything.” The Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) then said: “I have no doubt that you will. But I do not like distinctions to be made, nor does Allah like any one of His servants to assert his superiority over his companions.”


His self-deprecation was such that he  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) once said: “By Allah, I do not know, even although I am Allah’s messenger, what my fate in the next world will be, nor do I know what yours will be.”


Abu Tharr Al-Ghifaari, may Allah be pleased with him, narrated that one day he was sitting with another companion of black complexion whom he addressed as: “O black man.” When the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) heard of this, he was greatly displeased and cautioned Abu Tharr never to make scornful remarks to anyone, whoever he might be, and to accord equal treatment to all, adding: “No white man has any superiority over a black man.”


The Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) once saw a wealthy Muslim gathering up his loose garments so that a certain distance would be kept between himself and a poor Muslim sitting close by. He  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) remarked: “Do you fear that his poverty will cling to you?”


The Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) lived like any ordinary person, and did not assume any superior rights. He once had to borrow some money from a Jew called Zayd ibn Sana’a. The Jew came to demand the immediate return of the loan a few days before the expiry of the stipulated period. Tugging at the mantle around the Prophet’s shoulders, he jibed that the progeny of ‘Abd Al-Muttalib were always defaulters.


`Umar, may Allah be pleased with him, not being able to tolerate this misbehavior on the part of the Jew, started berating him, and was on the point of beating him when the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) said to the Jew, smiling: “There are still three days to go before the promise has to be fulfilled.” To ‘Umar, may Allah be pleased with him, he  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) said: “We might have had better treatment from you. You could have advised me to be more careful about the return of loans and you could have advised the Jew to be more courteous in demanding repayment.” He  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) then requested ‘Umar, may Allah be pleased with him, to get some dates so that the loan could be repaid, and to give the Jew an extra forty kilograms for the rebuke he had been given.


We can say that humbleness is seen in every sphere of the Prophet’s life. His way of talking, walking, sitting, eating and every aspect of his life reflected humbleness.





 





Allah Says (what means): "By the grace of Allah, you are gentle towards the people; if you had been stern and ill-tempered, they would have dispersed from round about you" [Quran, 3: 159]





About himself the prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) said: "Allah has sent me as an apostle so that I may demonstrate perfection of character, refinement of manners and loftiness of deportment." [Maalik and Ahmad]





By nature he  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) was gentle and kind hearted, always inclined to be gracious and to overlook the faults of others. Politeness and courtesy, compassion and tenderness, simplicity and humility, sympathy and sincerity were some of the keynotes of his character. In the cause of right and justice he could be resolute and severe but more often than not, his severity was tempered with generosity. He  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) had charming manners which won him the affection of his followers and secured their devotion. Though virtual king of Arabia and an apostle of Allah, he never assumed an air of superiority. Not that he  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) had to conceal any such vein by practice and artifice: with fear of Allah, sincere humility was ingrained in his heart. He  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) used to say: "I am a Prophet of Allah but I do not know what will be my end." [Al-Bukhari]





In one of his sermons calculated to instill the fear of Allah and the day of reckoning in the hearts of men, he  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) said: "O people of Quraysh be prepared for the hereafter, I cannot save you from the punishment of Allah; O Bani Abd Manaaf, I cannot save you from Allah; O Abbaas, son of Abdul-Mutalib, I cannot protect you either; O Faatimah, daughter of Muhammad, even you I cannot save." [Al-Bukhari & Muslim]





He  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) used to pray: "O Allah! I am but a man. If I hurt any one in any manner, then forgive me and do not punish me." [Ahmad]





He always received people with courtesy and showed respect to older people and stated:





"To honor an old man is to show glorification to Allah."





He  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) would not deny courtesy even to wicked persons. It is stated that a person came to his house and asked permission for admission. The prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) remarked that he was not a good person but might be admitted. When he came in and while he remained in the house, he was shown full courtesy. When he left 'Aa'ishah, may Allah be pleased with her, said: "You did not think well of this man, but you treated him so well."





The prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) replied: "He is a bad person in the sight of Allah who does not behave courteously and people shun his company because of his bad manners." [Al-Bukhari]





He  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) was always the first to greet another and would not withdraw his hand from a handshake till the other man withdrew his. If one wanted to say something in his ears, he would not turn away till one had finished as reported in the books of Abu Daawood and At-Tirmithi  may  Allah  have  mercy  upon  them. He did not like people to get up for him and used to say: "Let him, who likes people to stand up in his honor, he should seek a place in hell." [Abu Daawood].





He  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) would himself, however, stand up when any dignitary came to him. He  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) had stood up to receive the wet nurse who had reared him in infancy and had spread his own sheet for her. His foster brother was given similar treatment. He  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) avoided sitting at a prominent place in a gathering, so much so that people coming in had difficulty in spotting him and had to ask which one was the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ). Quite frequently uncouth bedouins accosted him  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) in their own gruff and impolite manner but he never took offence. [Abu Daawood]





He  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) used to visit the poorest of ailing persons and exhorted all Muslims to do likewise [Al-Bukhari]. He  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) would sit with the humblest of persons saying that righteousness alone was the criterion of one's superiority over another. He  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) invariably invited people be they slaves, servants or the poorest believers, to partake with him of his scanty meals. [At-Tirmithi]





Whenever he  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) visited a person he would first greet him and then take his permission to enter the house. He  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) advised the people to follow this etiquette and not to get annoyed if anyone declined to give permission, for it was quite likely the person concerned was busy otherwise and did not mean any disrespect.





There was no type of household work too low or too undignified for him  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ). 'Aa'ishah, may Allah be pleased with her, has stated: "He always joined in household work and would at times mend his clothes, repair his shoes and sweep the floor. He would milk, tether, and feed his animals and do the household shopping." [Al-Bukhari]





He  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention ) would not hesitate to do the menial work of others, particularly of orphans and widows [An-Nasaa'ee, Ad-Daarami]. Once when there was no male member in the house of the companion Khabaab Ibn Al-Arat, may Allah be pleased with him, who had gone to the battlefield, he used to go to his house daily and milk his cattle for the inhabitants [Ibn Saad].



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